Created and curated by Trauma Specialist Jimanekia Eborn, this retreat is for femmes of color who have experienced – and survived – sexual assault.
This retreat honors a group of femmes who are constantly pushed to the side, overlooked, and over-sexualized by supporting them in their healing.
Founder of Trauma Queen
Jimanekia Eborn is a Comprehensive Sex Educator and Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. She is the host of Trauma Queen – a podcast mini-series for survivors of assault and their allies.
As an expert in her field and as a survivor herself, she also knows firsthand the importance of finding healing and community when it comes time to process your trauma.
Femmes of color are disproportionately impacted by sexual violence – and the few that do report their assault or seek help are often ignored, invalidated, or dismissed. There is a lack of resources in support of femmes of color and the systems that do exist leave their patients further emotionally exhausted & wounded.
We need effective & compassionate care from teachers who understand our experiences & our needs
We need Tending the Garden.
- Plant-Based Cuisine
- Chakra Activation & Balancing
- Energy Clearing & Charging
- Sound Clearing
- Cognitive Processing Therapy
- Postural Yogic Flow
- Mind-Body Connection Lessons
- Pleasure Workshops
- Decolonized Psychotherapy
- Local Excursions
Releasing trauma from the body is crucial to healing. You will learn about the mind-body connection and practice body movement techniques to begin the process of restoring vitality to the body.
Supported by a team of therapists, you will dive deep into freeing the psyche from trauma. You will learn grounding exercises, mindfulness practices, how to deal with triggers, and more.
For many survivors, practicing fulfilling sex comes as a challenge. Here, you will learn to reconnect with your body, rediscover your voice and explore new sexuality practices and habits conducive to healing.
We’re raising funds to support the cost of 5 femmes to attend this retreat free from financial worries.
The Scholarship is need based & for those who would otherwise be unable to attend.
One scholarship spot will be specifically reserved for a trans femme survivor.
Please consider supporting below. Any contribution of any amount will be considered a Tax-Deductible Donation processed by our non-profit partner, The Effing Foundation. 5% of all scholarship funds will go towards the Effing Foundations grant program for sex-positive artistic and educational endeavors.
Cost of the retreat : $2,222
*(average price of Imiloa retreats $5,000)
Payment Plan Available
Included in the price:
- Plant Based Cuisine by a 5 Star Private Chef
- Luxury Accommodations ranging from 200 Year Old homes from Bali, Waterfall Jungle Bungalows & Geodesic Domes.
(Assigned to you, ‘First Come, First Serve’ with Registration!)
- 5 nights, 6 days at the lush 22 acre Imiloa jungle oasis
- Private Chartered flight between San Jose airport & Imiloa
- Private Waterfall
- Healings, Workshops, & Lessons by Facilitators & On-Site Staff
Not Included in Price
Flights to & from San Jose
Personal Travel/Medical Insurance – recommended
Please note, you may only submit ONE application, either Standard OR Scholarship. Scholarship slots are reserved for those who otherwise would not be able to attend this retreat.
*applying does not guarantee a reservation* Due to the nature of the retreat, we will be reviewing applicants & if accepted, you will be directed to registration.
Applications close: December 12 at 12pm PST
~Body Forgiveness Track~
Ev’Yan, sexuality doula & sensual educator, will be gently guiding you to connect to your body with lessons where you’ll be listening & feeling into your senses. We’ll be exploring what it feels like to be soft with ourselves through movement, ritual & intention, & we’ll be creating new stories we have about our self-image – how we see ourselves & how the world sees us. Throughout this exploration of body connectedness, we’ll be holding space for ourselves & each other as we process what comes up in the tender & fun space of body forgiveness, pleasure, & celebration.
~Mental Health Track~
Thea’s work is designed to deconstruct pain-centered trauma narratives, collectively challenge & repair harmful beliefs rooted in pain-centered trauma narrative, & identify joy-centered healing opportunities, past-present-future, that will allow you to integrate all lived experiences into the life you are creating. Thea will employ decolonized psychotherapy, afro-spirituality, Tantric principles, & Chakra work into the curriculum.
Cindy Lee Alves
~Sexual Education Track~
Our time together will be spent deepening our understanding of sex & sexuality. We will explore ways to (re)-connect with your bodies as sources of joy, empower you to center your own fantasies/desires, & curate pleasurable experiences of your own design.
Jordi will provide private healing energy sessions to support the evolution of self throughout the retreat. We will incorporate energy clearing, energetic body adjustment, energetic charging & informative recommendations to tune into our intuitive selves & process our emotions, growth, & trauma. Readings & healing may also include Sound Clearing, Smudging, Card Pulls, & Body Scans.
Every morning, we’ll ground our day with a yoga practice that will facilitate a reclamation of the fearless spirit within. We will center breathwork & meditation in addition to a fast paced & sweaty postural flow. Classes will challenge everything we’ve been taught to believe about how our mind, body, & spirit link together. Wear your humility on your sleeve & leave all preconceived notions at the door- if you can find a smile, breathe, & laugh at yourself, this is the practice for you.
Dr. Toni Stewart
We will be working together to gain control over your life & redirect your journey. Dr. Toni will be offering trauma-focused cognitive behavioral therapy to ease your anxiety, offer clarity & provide support during your healing process.
We offer a variety of accommodations:
2 singles (King Bed , one room)
14 double (2 Single beds, sharing one room)
16 quads (4 Single beds, sharing one room)
Each room is equipped with 850 thread count bedding for maximum comfort,
high-speed internet, and clean drinking water derived from our artesian well.
THE BALI HOMES
our three Bali Homes are imported from Indonesia and boast hand-carved architecture.
THE JUNGLE BUNGALOWS
Six Jungle Bungalows built on the side of the mountain on the pathway to our very own private waterfall. Bali inspired, the interiors feature natural finishings and a gorgeous exposed shower and bath tub.
Guests arrive refreshed, relaxed and you don’t need to coordinate a thing!
THE GEODESIC RIVER DOMES
Six Buckminster Fuller inspired Geodesic River Domes, among the best made in the world and partially powered by solar energy, sit perched on the edge of our private river with the fresh, flowing water feeding up to the domes.
Experience the soothing sounds of relaxing and sleeping next to flowing water. Amazing!
THE HOUSE OF MASTERS
THE SOCIAL SPACE
A sprawling 3,000 square foot space that is the “Heart of Imiloa,” our social space features loungy, multicultural inspired furnishings, couches, and 5 imported tables from Bali, all under a Polynesian style roof.